Sunday, April 12, 2009

Its my wedding isnt it?

Happy Easter to everyone. I hope everyone had a wonderful blessed Easter with the people they love the most, I know I did. Ok that said let me get to my rant...
Adam and I decided when he proposed we didnt want a huge wedding something small a few of our closest friends and family. As Ive stated in previous posts that we decided to have it here at our home. After pleadings and discusions about weather we finally moved the reception and added a dance both to be held at the Backus legion. It wasnt what I wanted but we did it and made some peace on the subject. I thought that would make some happiness on the whole thing......wrooooooooooong. My mother in law to be is insistant that she would like our wedding in a church. Its not that Im against churches quite the opposite. I just want mine how we planned it. Small and at home!!! So today all I heard was "Oh dont you want a church wedding? " NO I DONT. How many times do I have to say it. For once my mother came through for me when she asked my mom she said you know they could have gone to the justice of the peace it doesnt really matter...THANKS MOM!!! and I do mean that. My mother in law is making me feel like everything I want is wrong not good enough. To make matters worse she gave me her guest list. It goes beyond small. I dont have enough chairs for all this. Or food. Now all of a sudden baked beans have been added to my menu, I didnt want that either. After the day is done and people have gone home, Adam turns to me and says maybe we should have a church wedding. Ok so now Im crushed because once again my ideas and plans arent good enough. Am I being petty?

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